How To Know You Are Soul-Tied?

soultieA failed relationship comes with a terrible feeling especially if you thought the relationship was promising enough to lead to marriage. It failed, both of you have gone separate ways. Well, it has happened and you have to move on. That’s life. Some people find it easy moving on after a failed relationship, others don’t but the truth is, the earlier you are able to accept the reality that the relationship has no hope of working the better it is for you to move on. The inability to move on because you think you may never find anyone as good as your ex is a “soul-tie” and here are some signs of soul-tie Continue reading

IS YOUR MARRIAGE WORTH THE STRESS? Part 3

BLACK-COUPLE-FIGHTINGDECLARE YOUR STATUS.

Tony had never being a fan of internet social groups until his boss told him they could use the groups to advertise their new product. Few months later, he fell in love with the social media especially FaceBook. He linked up with many old friends and relatives including his wife. One day, while he was surfing he decided to read past comments and post on his wife’s wall when he discovred that his wife status was single. Not married! He quickly summed it up to mean the reason she had more male friends than females and may have ulterior motive for leaving her status as ‘single’. “Something must be fishy” he thought. Make the relationship with your partner an important part of your identity. Always let people know that you are happily married or in a committed relationship. If you think twice or hesitate before answering a question of if you are married or not is an indication that something might be wrong with your relationship. Fix it. Continue reading

IS YOUR MARRIAGE WORTH THE STRESS? Part 2

BLACK-COUPLE-FIGHTINGMAINTAIN A CLEAN FILE. Peju never makes the mistake of taking calls while with her husband, Deji. Her phone is mostly on silence which makes Deji suspicious of the calls she receives at certain time of the day. Mostly when they are together at home. He once tried to go through her phone but it had a password and Peju refused telling him her password. Deji had no evidence to prove that Peju was cheating on him but he believed so. Commit to honesty, openness, and authenticity. Give straight answers to questions that may create doubt in your partner’s mind. Lies and deception create a secret life that can even allow an affair to occur. Continue reading

IS YOUR MARRIAGE WORTH THE STRESS? Part 1

BLACK-COUPLE-FIGHTINGTo the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 ESV

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Ephesians 4:32 ESV Continue reading