WILL MY ADDICTION TO MASTURBATION AFFECT MY SEX LIFE?

Who wants a doughnut when you can have a delicious-juicy hamburger with crunchy veggies? It’s a lame comparison. They can’t substitute for each other.

Masturbation is JUST doughnut. Sex IN MARRIAGE is that delicious-juicy hamburger. And yes being addicted masturbation can AFFECT your sex life. Negatively.

BTW- Sex outside marriage is WRONG. Paul said, 1 Cor 6: 16- “There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.” Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never “become one.” There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love…

So, these are two different sexual expressions. In masturbation you stimulate yourself using your hands or someone does it for you, sex is with a partner. Using sex toys still doesn’t make it ‘healthy’ sex too. It’s still a toy and NOT a partner. Except you are married to a toy. Worse. Insanity

I have heard people say things like, “it improve will my sex live”, “it will extend the length of my p3n*s”, “It will help me stay chastised till I get married”. The excuses are endless and I have come to believe that when people are involved in anything they think they may be criticized or condemned for they usually keep a good enough excuse handy.

Philipians 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.

Like any other addiction, masturbation can destroy a healthy relationship. Within the bounds of marriage I consider masturbation as cheating. Why will anyone want to pleasure themselves when there’s a partner? How is the other partner expected to be pleasured when one is already satisfied? Sex is a very beautiful thing intended by God to be enjoyed by both partners. Masturbation is a distortion, a perversion and the addiction leaves one in bondage.

Masturbation is spurred by fantasy especially from pornography; if a man masturbates while he is with his wife shouldn’t he be questioned on what his fantasies are. There are many ways couples can use their hands (fingers) to pleasure themselves that may not really be masturbation.

Prolong masturbating eventually leads to pre-mature ejaculation and no woman wants this. No wife wants to get in bed and her husband is already done before she takes off her clothes.

So if you masturbate now because you think it has future marital advantage, think again.

SHALOM.

One thought on “WILL MY ADDICTION TO MASTURBATION AFFECT MY SEX LIFE?

  1. Sex is meant to happen between two people and satisfaction gratified, but in the case of masturbation it leaves a person in a category of a unicellular (hermaphrodite) human, which means the person has the ability to give his or herself sexual pleasure,when a person who is addicted to masturbation gets married,he has the ability to get sexual satisfaction without his partner,there will be no intimacy in the marriage. The person is bound to strain the marriage relationship and stave the partner of love,sex,intimacy,affection etc.

    Masturbation only takes place when a person is drawn to his lust,either via porn or imagination. Unlike other addiction which requires external help, masturbation is internal,the sexiest part of an addict is his brain, the brain has the ability to recall all sexual illusion and exposure, even without a porn one can masturbate. That’s why bible say’s “Be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind”. The bran is a retrainable organ it can be reprogram ” Philippians 4:8  Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things….

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