How To Recognise And love A Sexually Abused Child

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While they are no sure ways to TOTALLY protect your child or ward from the chances of being sexually abused or even raped, there is ALOT you can do to reduce those chances. Many victims didn’t ‘expected’ it when it happened, even when they ‘know’, as children there is not much they can do especially if the abuser is someone very familiar to them and someone they trust and look up to. Continue reading

15 SIGNS SHE MAY NOT BE INTO YOU

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Guys are hunters, babes are games. Once a guy purposes to catch a game he hardly gives up until the game is securely in his grip. Naturally, ladies like to be chased and she enjoys the ‘playing-hard-to-get’ game. This is not bad; makes the whole hunting process fun but there comes a time when the hunter knows that the game Continue reading

BROKEN ENGAGEMENT: HOW LONG SHOULD YOU WAIT TO GET ENGAGED AGAIN?

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It’s being three years since he called off the wedding without a reason and I am still finding it hard to say ‘yes’ to another man. There have been many dates and suitors but it’s tough believing that after eight years of beautiful friendship and proposing to marry me, he called it off just three months before the wedding. It’s still a big hole in my heart I don’t know how to move on.

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THIRTY SOMETHING, SINGLE AND WAITING FOR THE RIGHT ONE

“I am 30+ and I have not been in any serious relationship for the past six years since I graduated. My first and last real date was as an undergraduate. I considered myself pretty and hardworking but I am really getting worried ?????????????????????????????????about marrying late. I have also been praying about this but I sometimes get worried.” 

“I have a good job. I am 33 going on 34 and strikingly handsome. I am romantic in every word of it. I love Continue reading

HOW MUCH SHOULD YOU REALLY INVEST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP?

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“After ALL I did for him! How can he quit the relationship just like that? I helped start his business, spent most of my time growing that business and running the streets for customers. I don’t deserve to be dumped!”

There was no way I could calm her the first time we spoke. She was deeply hurt and fought really hard controlling herself not to be vengeful; she had justified Continue reading