THIRTY SOMETHING, SINGLE AND WAITING FOR THE RIGHT ONE

“I am 30+ and I have not been in any serious relationship for the past six years since I graduated. My first and last real date was as an undergraduate. I considered myself pretty and hardworking but I am really getting worried ?????????????????????????????????about marrying late. I have also been praying about this but I sometimes get worried.” 

“I have a good job. I am 33 going on 34 and strikingly handsome. I am romantic in every word of it. I love Continue reading

RAPED AND ABUSED, NEED TO GET OVER IT

?????????????????????????????????????“15 years ago, a man who I trusted and looked up to for protection and care took advantage of me. He did it more than once…I cried until I got used to it. Till date I can still see him coming to me and his face beaming with wicked smiles. I promised to kill him when I grow up but God came into the picture. Continue reading

20 Reasons You May Need To Reconsider Your Relationship As You Step Into The NEW YEAR

  1. If your partner is not earning and doesn’t want to earn. Money is a big issue. Take it seriously. Love will turn sour ???????????????????????when the two of you are broke.
  2. If your partner is a liar, a cheat or a pretender; life is too short to accommodate living a false life. You deserve better
  3. If your partner is not committed. Commitment is a sign that both of you are heading same way. Don’t just HANG; you deserve to be the MAIN person. Continue reading

Sexual Abuse And The Lies

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Sexual Abuse is…

  • When someone (usually older or more powerful) forces or deceives you to sexually satisfy him/her. It is usually something you don’t want to do and not ready to do.
  • When someone forces you to look at other people having sex or watch them touch their private areas.
  • When someone older than you makes you have sex with them. This person can be anybody from a family member/relatives, to a neighbor, a teacher, a schoolmate etc. Continue reading

20 REASONS NOT TO GET MARRIED. ABSOLUTELY FREE!!! RECEIVE A FREE COPY OF MY EBOOK

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Some people’s life ‘goal is to GET MARRIED and it’s a good thing especially when it’s that one special person you have always dreamed of.

For many that “yes I do” is a dream come true! And that simple response can either be an introduction to a life of marital bliss in the face of challenges or a walk into hurts and heartbreak when the marriage cannot stand the realities of marriage.

In this book, I have put together 20 suggestions on what should NOT form your SOLE decision to get married.

It contains most of the things that are likely to influence your commitment decision and whether they are worth giving a priority or not.

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