“After ALL I did for him! How can he quit the relationship just like that? I helped start his business, spent most of my time growing that business and running the streets for customers. I don’t deserve to be dumped!”

There was no way I could calm her the first time we spoke. She was deeply hurt and fought really hard controlling herself not to be vengeful; she had justified Continue reading

20 Reasons You May Need To Reconsider Your Relationship As You Step Into The NEW YEAR

  1. If your partner is not earning and doesn’t want to earn. Money is a big issue. Take it seriously. Love will turn sour ???????????????????????when the two of you are broke.
  2. If your partner is a liar, a cheat or a pretender; life is too short to accommodate living a false life. You deserve better
  3. If your partner is not committed. Commitment is a sign that both of you are heading same way. Don’t just HANG; you deserve to be the MAIN person. Continue reading



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Common Questions And Answers on Masturbation*

  • I stopped masturbating last year but I have gone back to it because I cannot stop thinking about it. What do I do?

You have already answered your question. You went back to masturbating because you keep thinking about it. Once you have quit, you have to win the ‘mind-battle’ by consciously not thinking about it. If you find yourself thinking about it when you are alone, idle, or taking your bath, please read up all the points on How To Overcome Addiction To Masturbation Continue reading

Just Another Dream

You came into me,

Your touch,

Your smell,

Your warmth,

Your sparkles,

Oh how you conquered me!

Alas! You did not stay,

You went away with the dawn,

My heart you took away with you.

Come again into me  my love.

I am sitting here waiting,

My thought is dancing around the mystery date.

A smile is coming to my face, he is a fine man i imagine.

I am crossing my leg and pointing the high heel stilleto of my left foot,

I am rehearsing a seductive smile and that voice.

Here he comes! Just the way he is in my fantasy land.

Fine man indeed!

“Hello pretty, did I keep you waiting for long?”

The sound of his huskiness is just as he looks.

I am overcome by his presence.

He is touching me,

I am loving the feel of his unsmooth palm,

“Don’t stop,” I mutter.

He is stroking my arm,

“Don’t stop,” I am near moan.

“Wake up! We are getting late.”

Oh! This fine man was just a dream.