IT’S AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP IF HE/SHE…

  1. Call you names and uses vulgar words at you because he/she is having a bad day.
  2. Slap, kick, hit or beats you with excuses of being angry.
  3. Shouts you down; never giving you the opportunity to speak your mind especially during an argument
  4. Forces you to have sex or threatens to break the relationship if you don’t give sex?????????????????????????????????????????????
  5. Tells you who to be friends with and screens the list of people you should relate with. Continue reading

20 REASONS NOT TO GET MARRIED. ABSOLUTELY FREE!!! RECEIVE A FREE COPY OF MY EBOOK

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Some people’s life ‘goal is to GET MARRIED and it’s a good thing especially when it’s that one special person you have always dreamed of.

For many that “yes I do” is a dream come true! And that simple response can either be an introduction to a life of marital bliss in the face of challenges or a walk into hurts and heartbreak when the marriage cannot stand the realities of marriage.

In this book, I have put together 20 suggestions on what should NOT form your SOLE decision to get married.

It contains most of the things that are likely to influence your commitment decision and whether they are worth giving a priority or not.

To download click 20 REASONS NOT TO MARRY

WILL MY ADDICTION TO MASTURBATION AFFECT MY SEX LIFE?

Who wants a doughnut when you can have a delicious-juicy hamburger with crunchy veggies? It’s a lame comparison. They can’t substitute for each other.

Masturbation is JUST doughnut. Sex IN MARRIAGE is that delicious-juicy hamburger. And yes being addicted masturbation can AFFECT your sex life. Negatively.

BTW- Sex outside marriage is WRONG. Paul said, 1 Cor 6: 16- “There’s more to sex than mere skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, “The two become one.” Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever—the kind of sex that can never “become one.” There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our own bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love… Continue reading

Overcoming Addiction To Masturbation

  1. Overcoming this habit is really up to you. No one can make you stop it if you do not want to. So, make up your mind and stop thinking about Masturbating.
  2. You are human and humans make mistakes.  You have been making a mistake if you have been masturbating. Are you willing to correct that mistake? Forgive yourself and bear in mind that you are more than all your mistakes
  3. Understand that you cannot do it on your own; without the help of God. Do you know how to pray? Sincerely ask Him to forgive you and tell Him that you need His help to stop. He will answer.
  4. If the temptation comes whenever you are naked, then avoid sleeping without your clothes on. Dress up as soon as you have your bath. Continue reading

NO ONE CAN BOAST TO BE SUPERHUMAN WHEN IT COMES TO OVERCOMING SEXUAL TEMPTATIONS

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Guilty!

Before you begin to throw stones of accusations at someone ‘caught in the act’, bear in mind that no one gets married with the intention of hurting their spouse or sleeping with someone else apart from the mate to whom they pledged “till death do us part.”

Every married person is susceptible to extramarital affair. It is not about been smart or having a special skill in dealing with the opposite sex. It is not even about how anointed you are or how many demons you can cast out. The chemistry between a man and a woman when there is a spark takes only grace to stay victorious.

In this book, Caught in the Act, you will discover

  • reasons people indulge in extramarital affairs
  • how to avoid it
  • what to do if or when it occurs
  • and how to break free from unnecessary entanglement

“…let he that thinks he stands take heed lest he falls.”

Just Another Dream

You came into me,

Your touch,

Your smell,

Your warmth,

Your sparkles,

Oh how you conquered me!

Alas! You did not stay,

You went away with the dawn,

My heart you took away with you.

Come again into me  my love.

I am sitting here waiting,

My thought is dancing around the mystery date.

A smile is coming to my face, he is a fine man i imagine.

I am crossing my leg and pointing the high heel stilleto of my left foot,

I am rehearsing a seductive smile and that voice.

Here he comes! Just the way he is in my fantasy land.

Fine man indeed!

“Hello pretty, did I keep you waiting for long?”

The sound of his huskiness is just as he looks.

I am overcome by his presence.

He is touching me,

I am loving the feel of his unsmooth palm,

“Don’t stop,” I mutter.

He is stroking my arm,

“Don’t stop,” I am near moan.

“Wake up! We are getting late.”

Oh! This fine man was just a dream.

20 LIES ON SEX AND LOVE. Mind burgling questions.

3ABOUT THE BOOK

Is sex really a proof of love?

Is it really a spiritual affair as some claim?.

How come some religious bodies do not treat the issue of fornication/adultery and abstinence/faithfulness like other motivational subjects?

Do you know that some people are ashame to the even say the word sex, others feel it’s a dirty topic to discuss with young people in religious gathering?

It is purely a lack of knowlegde to assume that the issue of sex is not important to God.

This book will show you some misconceptions about love and sex and what God says about them.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Emike Oyemade, a graduate of Mass Communication has committed her life to reaching out to young people and bringing out the best in them.

A writer and a speaker, she is very passionate about speaking to young people about the bible’s stand on sex and love.

She lives in Lagos with her husband and their two lovely children

She can be reached on 234-802 660 3057 or email emikeoyemade@gmail.com for counseling.